Members can vote on other members profile. While viewing a member’s profile you are able to rate it by rolling over the stars and clicking on the desired amount of stars you wish to give his/her profile. One star being not too interesting and 10 being very interesting. Your votes are based on a combination of their profile information, essay, photo etc. Voting is not to be used as a judgment of beauty or cuteness.

To see the outcome of all votes you click on Featured Members to see who has been receiving the best votes.

To hide your profile:
1. Login,
2. Click on “My Profile”.
3. Click on “Profile Settings”
4. To hide your profile make sure “Hide” is selected and then click on “Update”.

Note: this does NOT terminate your membership and does NOT grant you additional membership time. You must remember that your account is on hide mode status and activate it when you are ready to continue with your membership. During the “Hide” mode members will not be able to view, search or make any type of communication with you and you will have limited use of the site.

To unhide your profile:
1. Login,
2. Click on “My Profile”.
3. To unhide your profile make sure “Reveal” is selected and click on “Update”.

Note: during the time you had your account in a “Hold” mode it did NOT terminate your membership. This does NOT grant you additional membership time.

Yes, you can block a member. Open the member’s profile you wish to block and select “Block Member” .

No, once you have cancelled your membership your account will no longer exist. All information including your photos, videos, blogs, sent and received Emails, Winks, E-Cards and Quick Notes will be lost and deleted from our system.

Note: once your information is removed from our database it cannot be restored.

Featured Members are the profiles with the highest (star) member votes.

To try to be on the Featured Members you may want to:
-Place your best photo as your main photo. Show your best side, dress up, have your hair done and put on your best suit or dress.
- Make your profile interesting by adding a video.
- Keep your profile information up-to-date and interesting.
- Making friends? Ask them to vote for you.
- Be very active.

To refer a friend to the site all you need is his or her email address;
1. Login into your account and click on “Refer a Friend” banner located in the top of your hime page.
2. Enter your friends email address in the “To” box, (If more than one separated by commas)
3. Enter a “Personal Message” (optional) and click on “Invite”

Your friend will receive an email invitation with a LINK. They must join using this link in order for your account to receive 30 days free. Once your friend has joined, please allow 7 days for your account to receive full credit.

Note: Your friend must be an approved paid member in order to receive full credit and must remain a member for 3 days.

Yes. You will receive 30 free days once your friend has joined. Referred friend must be approved and have selected a paid membership.

A Quick Note is another form of an icebreaker for our shy members to initiate contact.

E-Cards are one ways for our members to initiate a contact or send a colorful reply. You can send an E-Card by choosing from one of the list of different background E-Cards for any occasion and adding a personalized text.

You can use this feature when you are interested in a member, but don’t have time to email them right away and wish to email them later or keep your favorite profiles for an quick access. While viewing a member’s profile click on “Bookmark Me. This member will then be added to “My Bookmarks” , which you may later review and edit.

IM is an acronym for instant message, which represents a real life private conversation between two users via instant email system. If the other member is online you can start your one-on-one email session by clicking the “IM” icon on his profile.