Communicate until you communicate: alk until you know you talking about the same thing.
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I am 69 years old single
from Barstow, California, United States
Username: lillshe
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Yesterday the Holy Spirit pointed out something He wanted me to recognize and STOP,
“You are not planting your past good marriage into a new relationship. You are to plant yourself. The man who desires to be your husband deserves to make his own place in your life and not be held to filling the shoes of your late husband. Because you have had a good experience adjusting and melding into the life of another, you will bring the same good relationship tools into a new life. You are not to create what you once had with another. You will join with another and together create another loving and good relationship.”
Today I spoke to a friend about the above word and he suggested Christian Singles.com
Tomorrow I will have left the past, stepping into the future with another; to create a loving and good relationship for the rest of our lives. Who will join with me in this? God knows!
I love being female and I like men. Especially do I like being with my own special man.
I understand the man as covering for his wife and I am content to be in that special place of protection. However, I do have an adventurous nature and on occasion I can be a challenge and may even display a touch of aggression. I am assertive, unpredictable and savvy about the birds and the bees. : ) No same “o” same “o” here. Except, I am always loyal and true to my mate. My mouth is kind and pleasant.
My body has tested to be 11.5 years younger than my stated age, because of good genes, healthy food, exercise and pure water. The test did not say so, but I believe praise and worship to the One True God has something to do with longitivity.
I love praise and worship at home and church. I am a prophetic intercessor. This is an intercessor that searches the word to find appropriate and specific scripture to pray. I am comfortable in leading and in being lead in prayer. I read through the Bible 2 x a year.
I was a DK, Deacon’s Kid in a Baptist Church, so was not allowed to dance. If my mate wants to dance, he will need to teach me. I have always thought line dancing looked like fun. I used to have a great backhand tennis move. I have a regular bicycle, which has not been used recently. I go to Curves for Women 3 X a week.
Being on time is built into my sense of the right thing to do. If I am late there is something wrong. I work at eating right. I also enjoy indulging, but eating right wins 85% of the time.
At this time my 87 year old daddy is living with me. His medical care is provided by the Veterans Medical Centers. His burial policy is paid. He walks 2-3 miles a day. This winter he has climbed up and down a ladder to the roof to keep my Heating-Air Cond. Unit Working. He get a SS Check and helps pay for food and gas to take him to appointments.
I believe my husband should be king in his home. What does that mean? That means; if he gets treated like a king, then I get treated like a queen. Right? Occasionally, I have been told, “Your getting too pushy.” That is when I back off and give space. I love peace, I love loving, and I love being loved. This lady does not pull out the war machines and turn them against her lover.
A vacation would be nice. I have not had special trips or sightseeing vacations, except to take our son to Disney and Knott’s. I have worked out side of the home and have gone to resorts with the management club for in-services, I would like to go somewhere just for fun with a very special person. Know what I mean? Let’s communicate. : )
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| Type of Christianity: |
Pentecostal |
| Who if first in your life: |
The Lord |
| I attend Church: |
More than once a week |
| Level of Faith |
My Faith is strong |
| Reading Bible: |
More than once a day |
| Relocate for the right Person?: |
Yes |
| Ethnicity: |
White Caucasian |
| Education: |
Masters Degree |
| Employment Status: |
Retired |
| My Martial Status: |
Widowed |
| When last relationship ended: |
Over 2 years |
| Children live with you?: |
No |
| Do you want to have (more)children?: |
No |
| My Personality: |
Affectionate Caring Confident Creative Dependable Down-to-earth Easygoing Flexible Generous Genuine Giving Good Listener Loving Open Minded Optimistic Outgoing Practical Responsible Romantic Sensitive |
| Favorite Reading: |
The Bible |
| Favorite Music: |
Christian |
| Interest in Politics: |
I like to be informed |
| Favorite Food: |
Home meals |
| Favorite Activities: |
Visiting Friends/ Relatives |
| Describe the Perfect First Date |
Both are dressed appropriately, hair combed and teeth brushed, breath sweet. Conversation is upbeat and positive, laughter is appropriate. Plans are made for the next phone call, meeting. Each one leaves with a smile on their face and expectancy in their heart.
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